Sad day for a protective mother

Now, she found 18 items!~

The mother:

i have found all the items and if i returned it in behalf of hers will the claim be closed..
can u cancel the case, i will return all the items and i think are are couple more but think she may have lost them.. what is the address i need to send to?i will also send you some other things including what you are selling and hope that this will help even though its not on yr site..i am truly sorry. and can u list all the items and the address to send to?
thank you and may u close the case please and will send all the items and extras so this wont happen again andi will be careful. and if items we dont have then i will send you something that is related to what u have on yr site!! please i beg of you..

VS:

Hi,

Gosh, why should we pay for her dishonesty? Isnt as parents, you should be responsible for her actions? It is very very bad for you to tell us to pay for her dishonesty. We are not her parents.

She has caused so much trouble and money for us since December when all her bills are denied and were deducted from our Paypal account. We need this money for all our goods and shipping fees. We are Not a Charity Company. Do you feel it is right for us to pay for her after all these troubles and losing of big $?

What is the use of sending us the items? It becomes 2nd hand now and it is already old items. Nobody will buy these from us. If you were us, do you take back?

Sorry to say, but this is a very bad way to teach your children. They will never learn the lesson on life and may go cheating again. She should go find job and repay you the money.She must be taught to be responsible for her dishonest action. It is unfortunate you are not teaching her this way.
Pls do not beg us. Pls plan now with your daughter how the S$580 can be repay before 29th feb. We obviously dont want her to go to jail too. That is why, we allow the payment till 29th Feb. If we are bad, we send all the documents tomorrow. We are kind enough.

After 1st March, we will submit all the documents to USA.

We view this cheating very seriously.

Pls do not beg us.

The mother:

Hi,


please i beg of you..close this case..
i will do anything?
the amount is just too much..
i can return the items since i see some in her room.
please? i beg you..
i seriously dont want her to go to jail,
so why dont you pay for her dishonesty..please..i am willing to return some of the items we have now. please. i beg of you.
i have the 18 items as i counted..
would theat be undestandable?

VS

Sorry, we cannot close this case until the full amount is paid. Otherwise, we should pay for your daughter's dishonesty?

She do not need to possession the credit card. All she need is to copy down your card number and expiry date that's all. From there, she goes online to do shopping. It is very easy to cheat this way. Perhaps you cannot believe she did all these. No parents can 24hrs keep track of their Children. She can easily commited these when she is in school, after she got your credit card number etc. Kids today are smarter than their parents think.

She must have kept all the items, since she has opened up that package. If she is honest, she will return it to us and tell you she did receive our package when you asked her. But she didnt. This shows she has signs of dishonesty. She cant throw them away coz she loves Alice Nine and Miyavi. Which fan will throw it away? We think the police will search your house for all the items.

The signing shipping papers all are the proofs we have and it is very easy for the police to handle. We also have all her emails (she created other email accounts that she didnt tell you). The police can check the Internet Providers address. It will show your home address. This is the proof too.

She is a young adult and must be responsible for her all her actions. She has to learn her lesson.

It is a very serious cheating crime. She will either stay a few weeks in jail or pay heavy fines with criminal record.

We are sure paying the S$580 is cheaper than the police case.

The Mother:

i am sorry but i can't make that amount of payment.
its too much and i dont even have that amount.
she is not here right now,she comming back on monday.she left this moring on a trip.
i am pretty sure she did not order anything from your site because i watch every move.
and she don't have posission of my card or my accounts.so how? besides signing it.
i am sorry for that. please dont cause her any trouble, i feel like she might do something horible if she goes to jail or somthing. all the items i saw are opened..she only has few but dont know what happened to others item,may be threw them away or somthing.
please can u just close this case and promise i will watch very carefully from now on. my regards to you.i will never allow this to happen. besides she is leaving away soon.so i check everything.

The mother feels she need not pay for the items her daughter has thrown away? She still cannot believe how her daughter got her credit card number. Said she watched her every move and it is impossible her girl bought things from us? How is it possible? She can only watch her when she is at home, not her outside activities and online activities. Moreover, she is away now. Who knows where she is doing her shopping spree now? Her daughter is obviously dishonest. The poor mother still believes her daughter has only one email account...which being has only 1 email account?

She dont know the trouble her daughter had caused us for the past 3 months and now asking us not to create trouble for her daughter.
Paypal even did a revesal of funds when we just withdrew it to our bank account. This amount (S$400+) was stopped and move back to paypal coz they need to deduct $ from our account due to this issue! How angry was that? We need the funds to run our biz and in the end, we have take it from our own pocket to pay for customer's orders.

This reminds me of a neighbour's story.

They had only one daughter and her dad drives her to fro from school and to pratically all her outside activities. They thought they knew what their daughter's every move. One day, the girl came home and infom her parents she is pregnant. Imagine the horror expression on her parent's face? This is a very good example of how it is impossible for parents to keep track of their kids every move.

Does your parent know your every move? My parents doesnt.

Now is the internet age, it makes it even tougher for parents to keep track of their kids.